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Some of my best and most rewarding long term adult friendships have come as the result of working with people in various office configurations. I'm astonished a
by fsckboy 3y ago
Some of my best and most rewarding long term adult friendships have come as the result of working with people in various office configurations. I'm astonished at the strong desire for physical isolation that so many people here are ever on about. But, not my business, you do you. One by one. Alone :) oh, and on top of that, there is a heavy overlap here with people who wish to flee any city, it's an interesting correlation. I love cities, for the daily variety they offer on so many dimensions. But this is not why I'm writing.
I just wanted to share a "home office arrangement" that I invented which I like quite a bit. It's probably more for a bachelor situation than couple, depends on your other, and not for the smallest of spaces, but it's a way to make a space like a living room do double duty. I've done it in several houses/apartments I've lived in and I won't go back.
The trick is this: if your couch has its back to a wall, move the couch out from the wall, and hide a desk and chair behind it, facing in the same direction as the couch. You can still use your living room as a living room, and if you're pounding a keyboard all day, a living room is a nice place to sit; I don not like staring at walls, I like depth. moderate clutter will remain mostly hidden, and you can also see the TV if you want to watch youtubes while you're on your keyboard.
- footy 3y agoI love cities, never want to move out of my very downtown apartment, and also never want to work in an office again. People (especially city people) who equate a preference for remote work with a "strong desire for physical isolation" must live very different lives than I do. The fact I work remotely means I have more flexibility and social energy at the end of the day to spend socializing with friends or at after-work sports leagues. When my best friend's mom died it let me spend TONS of time at their apartment so they would not be alone. It let me housesit for my partner's mother. Before we moved in together it let me work from their place and see more of them. I can, and often do, have lunch with friends who live nearby. Working remotely and isolation are just not on the same axis for me. It helps that my company has a very strong remote culture, but the job I had during early COVID did not and I still felt quite satisfied when we went remote. 100% agreed on the depth thing though. Nothing worse than staring at a wall while working-I like that from my desk I can see my entire living room, my front door, my bookshelves, etc.