I've been the same way for as long as I can remember. It applies to single player games, too. I've found that there are some games that losing isn't completel

I've been the same way for as long as I can remember. It applies to single player games, too. I've found that there are some games that losing isn't completely off-putting. But I think the real issue is that the fun I get from most games is in winning, not in playing. If I was playing for not reason (not to win, no goals, etc) I wouldn't play it, and would do something else instead. Winning makes it feel enough better than I want to play. I've been trying to "overcome" this, too, and having the right mindset is start. "I'm here to enjoy the game, not the win.", etc. Good luck. :)