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I think it’s multi causal: - lack of social norms and established best practices around courtship. (Man making the first move, how to start the conversation et
by wolframhempel 3y ago
I think it’s multi causal:
- lack of social norms and established best practices around courtship. (Man making the first move, how to start the conversation etc.)
- a lot of communication happens publicly and has a permanent record - so mistakes are more punished
- Being approached is likely to be perceived as more negatively/creepy (me too movement etc.)
- Having fewer things in common. (In the 90s, everyone watched the same movies, read similar books etc..)
- Overabundance of alternative entertainment / having fun on your own
- Different dating behavior introduced by Tinder & Co with more short term/immediate reward loops
Here’s what I think isn’t the reason:
- “Those kids always being on their phones” (aren’t we all?)
- New generations being inherently less social