This thread has some debate about whether thinking or feelings lead to the bad mindsets that nurture bad behavior. For me, bad mindsets typically arise after s

This thread has some debate about whether thinking or feelings lead to the bad mindsets that nurture bad behavior. For me, bad mindsets typically arise after some thinking. Often effortlessly. Conversely, my best mindsets happen after being engaged in a positive effort and/or being in a safe, enriching environment. In these conditions, my better self just forms, seemingly without me exercising any will.