> If nothing else, it sends a loud "I'm taking daddyhood d*mned seriously" signal to your wife. Also to yourself, surely? Why is the wife here being framed as

> If nothing else, it sends a loud "I'm taking daddyhood d*mned seriously" signal to your wife. Also to yourself, surely? Why is the wife here being framed as the judge of moral character for the other parent? Men also have agency and the ability to self-reflect.