I am, literally, running my own mail server. telnet port 25 on mail.calpaterson.com if you don't believe me. Relaying is a central feature of email infrastruc

I am, literally, running my own mail server. telnet port 25 on mail.calpaterson.com if you don't believe me. Relaying is a central feature of email infrastructure and it isn't somehow cheating to relay outgoing mail to someone else rather than send it directly.