Of course! I'm in favor of body hacks of all kinds. My point is, I view people who change genders in the same light as those who get devil horns, split tongues

Of course! I'm in favor of body hacks of all kinds. My point is, I view people who change genders in the same light as those who get devil horns, split tongues and stretched earlobes. It's your absolute right, and I celebrate it. But by making that choice, the tradeoff you accept is that some suits might not take you as seriously, and grandma might have a heart attack. I suppose that's the hair I'm splitting: homosexuality is generally not a choice, nor is being born with an internal gender conflict. But the way you alter your body or social identity is a choice, and you should accept the consequences of that choice, or not make it at all.