I'm sorry :( I hope you don't mind my joke. I meant no disrespect towards you and would never wish to minimize any suffering you experience. I was poking fun

I'm sorry :( I hope you don't mind my joke. I meant no disrespect towards you and would never wish to minimize any suffering you experience. I was poking fun at self-appointed experts who are more concerned with "um actually-ing" than rendering any help, and I now realize my comment doesn't help either. I hope you find the answers and relief you deserve.