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I've heard something similar in regards to serious drug addiction. The councillor can't just point out to the client to recognise how low they have fallen in t
by CTDOCodebases 3y ago
I've heard something similar in regards to serious drug addiction.
The councillor can't just point out to the client to recognise how low they have fallen in their life because a percentage of them might find this realisation overwhelming and just decide to end it.
So, instead they tell the client that they are a victim of circumstance thereby resolving the client of their part in their own suffering.
The predicament is that by doing this a certain amount will die from overdose or other factors related to their addiction anyway.
While I am sure this is partially true I understand why this approach is taken. People have a tendency to push against criticism even if it is correct. Also there seems to be a bias whereby someone is more likely to go along with their own ideas than the suggestions of others. I guess this is due to the deep desire for agency that we all have as individuals.
- nathanaldensr 3y agoThen this makes counseling a sham. It's a lie. It's not counseling, it's telling people what they want to hear for money. No actual help is being provided. Sometimes, help is "tough."
- CTDOCodebases 3y agoI wouldnt go that far. There is a difference between telling someone something directly versus pointing them in a direction to make their own conclusion.