Linux is closer to being a generally accessible OS than ever before, especially with Valve pushing it as a 1st class platform for gaming. A desktop environment

Linux is closer to being a generally accessible OS than ever before, especially with Valve pushing it as a 1st class platform for gaming. A desktop environment like KDE is a fully modern, integrated desktop even down to being able to use KDE Connect to use your smart phone from your desktop. You mentioned hating Ubuntu and 3 other distros, but really the fundamental differences between distros is mostly how they package software, and how frequently they downstream new software. Install something like Pop_OS, never touch a terminal and move on.