I love encountering nay-sayers because it means either: 1. I am wrong and could learn something new. 2. They are wrong and their opposition fills me with defi

I love encountering nay-sayers because it means either: 1. I am wrong and could learn something new. 2. They are wrong and their opposition fills me with defiant determination. The difficulty comes when you view something as case 2 but it is actually case 1 and you embarrass yourself. I do this all the time.