I'd rather have some uncouth editor berate me in a discussion than my personal editing experience of sometimes having simple and obvious, even clerical changes

I'd rather have some uncouth editor berate me in a discussion than my personal editing experience of sometimes having simple and obvious, even clerical changes to non-contentious topics immediately reverted with no comment. It's not that I take it personally, because I realize that no one cared to review the edits before reversion. It's just that "be bold" in the sense that it's applied by me in combination with how it's applied by overprotective bots (maybe?) or at worst diligent but careless editors is a massive waste of time and energy. So I've stopped contributing altogether.