That's more or less how I understood it, and I don't think it is a healthy thing to require of your partner. For one I don't think it is possible for someone to

That's more or less how I understood it, and I don't think it is a healthy thing to require of your partner. For one I don't think it is possible for someone to just override their feelings like that. And anyway I want my partner to understand my strengths and weaknesses. And to help me improve myself where possible with encouragement and constructive criticism, or to offset my weaknesses with their strengths. And vice versa.