>I’ve tried clubs/meetups they feel weird and inorganic. Like they aren’t how you’re supposed to make friends. Agree, but they get you in practice making casua

>I’ve tried clubs/meetups they feel weird and inorganic. Like they aren’t how you’re supposed to make friends. Agree, but they get you in practice making casual conversation, which is how you make friends — casual conversation with people you frequently share physical space with. Honestly, shared interests are only a bonus; if you share physical space with enough people on a regular enough basis, and repeatedly make casual conversation with them, some of them will magically become friends.