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There is a parallel issue in the world of sugar relationships. I know a few "sugar daddies," and one common theme for all of them is the number of "sugar babies
by sidlls 3y ago
There is a parallel issue in the world of sugar relationships. I know a few "sugar daddies," and one common theme for all of them is the number of "sugar babies" who lead them on and emotionally manipulate them. It's sad that the SDs fall for it, and it's cruel and pathetic that the SBs do it. It's common enough that there's a sort of meme in the gay twink community about it, even.
- unforeseen9991 3y agoYeah I do too, and they related similar experiences. The SB's typically have 3-4 men on the go at any one time.
- tennisflyi 3y agoReal SDs fuck. Anything else and you’re a simp/chump/sucker. Crass but true.
- sidlls 3y agoIt's not always about sex. One of my friends just wants companionship from younger people. In many ways, the "daddies" like him are the most victimized by these fraud "babies". It's sad, and I just wish he had a more healthy sense of his own self-worth. It's a lot like the stereotypical attractive girl always going after the "bad guy" and wondering why their love life is a constant shitshow.
- cocacola1 3y agoThe sugar baby/sugar daddy dynamic is entirely transactional. Why would the older person think the younger person is actually attracted to them?
- sidlls 3y agoYou’d be surprised at how many younger people there are who are legitimately attracted to older people. Aside from that, the “purely transactional” nature of these relationships is more nuanced than you suggest.