> Spend an hour on /r/regretfulparents and see it resonates at all Holy shit, that's some depressing stuff I didn't particularly want kids, but my wife really

> Spend an hour on /r/regretfulparents and see it resonates at all Holy shit, that's some depressing stuff I didn't particularly want kids, but my wife really wanted them. Took me some time to adjust, and when they're very little it's a real slog, but ... well, they're just people, people who are biologically pre-disposed to love you very much, and who you are biologically pre-disposed to love very much. The enormous amount of love that comes into your life when you're a parent is the upside of the whole thing that's invisible to non-parents