After testing many products and writing my own taking note app I settled down with Obsidian. It covers all your requirements and more. Plenty of useful plugins

After testing many products and writing my own taking note app I settled down with Obsidian. It covers all your requirements and more. Plenty of useful plugins. I even wrote a command line app to quickly add a single line note to the daily note of the day (https://github.com/wsw70/dly https://github.com/wsw70/dly) with ideas how to connect it to fantastic apps such as AutoHotKey