> One thing I'd add is that having a kid is very different than I imagined. I assumed it would be a slog like doing chores, but you'd feel accomplished at the e

> One thing I'd add is that having a kid is very different than I imagined. I assumed it would be a slog like doing chores, but you'd feel accomplished at the end (like having a clean house). One of the unexpected benefits of being the WFH parent for so long is I became an excellent cook, starting from practically no ability at all. Cooking real, varied dinners that keep kids happy 2x-3x per week will level up your skills in a way that weekend attempts a few times per month just can't compete. I remember the first time I did something really new that worked out well - a self-serve burrito bar featuring various ingredients. The kids were thrilled and my spouse was so grateful. It changed the family dynamics for the better.