As others mentioned, your argument is fundamentally contradicted by facts. The problem is that, without serious ideological engagement, neither side will ever

As others mentioned, your argument is fundamentally contradicted by facts. The problem is that, without serious ideological engagement, neither side will ever stop. The current state of play is the failure of the non-solution that is "Two States", aka "Israel and bantustans". Bantustans have historically been unsustainable for any government that tried to implement them.