Yup. I heard once a great way of putting it: It may or may not be your fault, but it is now your problem to fix. Whether it's a problem you made so can fix b

Yup. I heard once a great way of putting it: It may or may not be your fault, but it is now your problem to fix. Whether it's a problem you made so can fix by adjusting your attitude/behavior/skills/etc., or a problem that someone else made, or the universe made, and requires some other fix, focusing not on how things got worse, and actually focusing on how to make things better, is the only way to make things better.