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Personally, I don't make bad things my own fault. But I consider them my responsibility to fix.
by boeingUH60 3y ago
Personally, I don't make bad things my own fault. But I consider them my responsibility to fix.
- blooalien 3y ago> "I don't make bad things my own fault. But I consider them my responsibility to fix." ^^^ This! It's only your fault if it's actually your fault - If the blame genuinely lies with someone else, there's nothing left to do but take actions to a) fix it, and b) ensure that it never happens again. Can't rely on others to fix things, because the fact is that most people simply won't even try.
- hotsauceror 3y ago"Can't rely on others to fix things, because the fact is that most people simply won't even try." That is a much more charitable interpretation of this idea, and when I look at my own life that's pretty much where I am at. The bar for everyone else is zero. There never seem to be any consequences for others' laziness or stupidity, and the expectation is always that I will fix it. It's not fair of me to expect them to know or care what they're doing, or to fix what they've done, and it's unseemly to complain about it.