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That works in some cases. In others, you escalate a situation that could have been easily defused.
by darkerside 3y ago
That works in some cases. In others, you escalate a situation that could have been easily defused.
- asylteltine 3y agoI guess it can depend but in my experience men solve interpersonal issues with noise and aggression, and it very quickly disappears after because it is addressed. I’ve noticed women do the exact opposite which makes them hate each other for years
- darkerside 3y agoIt resolved because one party established dominance over the other. And for decisions that don't matter, that's a fine way of making them, if a bit unfair to those who are more timid and less aggressive. For decisions that are important, they are usually best resolved through a trusted conversation about diverse opinions.
- asylteltine 3y agoThat sounds very feminine and just the same thing in different forms. Men need to establish themselves. “Talking stuff out” doesn’t make anyone feel better you need to express yourself
- darkerside 3y agoInsecurity is also pretty feminine. Understanding where true power comes from is key to manhood.