I usually don't have much patience for passive-aggressive people in general. If you want to say something, just say it. It's not efficient otherwise. That bein

I usually don't have much patience for passive-aggressive people in general. If you want to say something, just say it. It's not efficient otherwise. That being said, passive-aggressiveness is also communicating something extra on top of the question at hand. That's what makes it infuriating for me because now we're discussing two issues, the actual issue and your hidden interpersonal issue. Both are probably valid things to discuss but in clear way, not with constantly second guessing.