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> I.e. dating apps you have tons of choice .. you do not ever have to be alone... you post pics on social media and get tons of likes. I could agree with those
by seydor 3y ago
> I.e. dating apps you have tons of choice .. you do not ever have to be alone... you post pics on social media and get tons of likes.
I could agree with those, but those are a rather limited part of life. They may help us, "the pretty ones" to feel good, but it takes more for someone to be considered successful generally.
> you use it to climb the professional ladder.
I think this is way overrated and lots of pretty girls end up disappointed or disappointing people, thus the meme of the dumb blonde.
the world is different today than it was in the 80s. I m not sure past performance is indicative of future results
- paul7986 3y agoIf you are a person who has never had any issue with dating options vs. one who has and refuses to settle just to have someone then consider yourself lucky. Living life alone sucks...mine goes in waves where I have found someone for some years who im attracted to yet they are not as respectful to the relationship or me as I am (they cheat or refuse to have an open relationship yet still cheat) to it and them. The dumb hot blonde most likely is never alone ... she could be broke cause of not respecting a good partner as they respected her or she could just have been with a lot of attractive men who constantly cheated cause they have choice. She could then drop her standards for a good guy to find security and respect or just say F it im done then her beauty fades. Hmmm being human ... and again if you are one who never had issue finding someone good/respectful who fits your wants/needs ... again consider yourself lucky!
- seydor 3y agoi am being facetious about being "the pretty one" but you are focusing on a single measure here, being alone.