A bit more personal background: We're primarily an android house, but have a couple of apple devices, use segregated wifis, run a pi-hole and iptables home fir

A bit more personal background: We're primarily an android house, but have a couple of apple devices, use segregated wifis, run a pi-hole and iptables home firewall, and have some local (non-cloud, non-voice) home automation and security installed. While I have past experience hacking together some in-house app solutions, it's been years since I've touched the stuff, and no longer even have my laptop set up with devtools (I'm an engineer, not a dev/programmer/etc). I also used to keep up with android rooting and custom OS, but again, it's been years.