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I wonder to what extent we can establish a common dialogue of "just don't be a hateful asshole" where you just don't have any interest about random personal cra

I wonder to what extent we can establish a common dialogue of "just don't be a hateful asshole" where you just don't have any interest about random personal crap you have zero entitlement to be involved in or are not entitled to retain any say in. The same way if I don't pay your electricity bill, I can't tell you what to use your electricity on. If I'm not having sex with you and I don't want to have sex with you, surprise! I don't have any right or should be expecting influence in that department cuz I have zero standing to demand it, and more importantly, why should I have any standing? And why do I care in the first place unless I have an agenda like my gay conversion camp I'm headmaster/captain of +/or I'm a closet homosexual and I want to distract from the obvious ensuing hilarity of me trying to reinforce and hide that I'm a totally not gay-"straight" fellow...Like by riding a horse shirtless...That PROVES im not gay :/ Let's call it "mind your own business". If only that was a minted expression, they already love business...What's the rub?

vacuity 3y ago
If so many people actually adopted this view or could be convinced to a comment like this, we probably wouldn't be experiencing this. You're not wrong in the least, but I'm just saying, we can't have that dialogue right now. Can't worry too much about designing better rock climbing gear when you're living in the moment of dangling from the cliff face.
- Obscurity4340 3y ago
  UBI + qualified parental rights (u don't "own" your kids if you hurt them) + kids have a say in spending/auditing of child support + emotional iq teaching in school from the start + media literacy classes == problem solved Edit: converting people to tolerance should take second place to removig their power and abillity to capriciously have any influence in any matter of currency or effect on others but themselves. This is the way. Everyone needs to control and be controlled by nobody other than themself. Lets call it—I don't know—"personal responsibility"...That's catchy enough amongst this crowd of the usual offenders
  - Obscurity4340 3y ago
    It would be great if there was a way to give kids a bounty to rat out deadbeat loser "caregiver" to whom the kids are expected to parentify
pauldenton 3y ago
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vacuity 3y ago

If so many people actually adopted this view or could be convinced to a comment like this, we probably wouldn't be experiencing this. You're not wrong in the least, but I'm just saying, we can't have that dialogue right now. Can't worry too much about designing better rock climbing gear when you're living in the moment of dangling from the cliff face.

Obscurity4340 3y ago
UBI + qualified parental rights (u don't "own" your kids if you hurt them) + kids have a say in spending/auditing of child support + emotional iq teaching in school from the start + media literacy classes == problem solved Edit: converting people to tolerance should take second place to removig their power and abillity to capriciously have any influence in any matter of currency or effect on others but themselves. This is the way. Everyone needs to control and be controlled by nobody other than themself. Lets call it—I don't know—"personal responsibility"...That's catchy enough amongst this crowd of the usual offenders
- Obscurity4340 3y ago
  It would be great if there was a way to give kids a bounty to rat out deadbeat loser "caregiver" to whom the kids are expected to parentify

pauldenton 3y ago

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