> but they're more about self interest than objectively putting the whole country first. Parents constantly talk about doing things for their children or grand

> but they're more about self interest than objectively putting the whole country first. Parents constantly talk about doing things for their children or grandchildren's best interest without ever talking to their children or grandchildren first to check what's actually in their best interest. These blind spots exist for many people. This is an actual psychological blindspot I just can't remember the term for it.