> Think of yourself as the person you want to be, not the person you are. I have always done this subconsciously, and although I can attribute a lot of my pers

> Think of yourself as the person you want to be, not the person you are. I have always done this subconsciously, and although I can attribute a lot of my personal growth to this trait, it's also the source of a lot of self-loathing. If you can't accept the parts of you that differs from who you want to be, you'll spend a lot of energy focusing on perceived mistakes that others didn't even notice.