A good friend doesn't have phone number for reasons that important to her. She's not "cut off", but it requires a conscious effort to contact her. So while I m

A good friend doesn't have phone number for reasons that important to her. She's not "cut off", but it requires a conscious effort to contact her. So while I may be keeping a group of people up to date or inviting folks for a bbq, open house, etc casually, I need to specifically invite her via some other channel. Sometimes I forget. Feelings are hurt. I'm a single parent with a demanding job. Low friction rules the roost for me, and our group of friends all sort of support each other with these types of things and do alot of ad-hoc stuff.