Listen, I understand that I prioritize children more than most parents do, because given my economic and philosophical circumstances I chose to not have childre

Listen, I understand that I prioritize children more than most parents do, because given my economic and philosophical circumstances I chose to not have children. What I have read is people talking about optimizing their child rearing for their jobs (and other things). This is bass-awkward. You optimize, as much as you can, for the child. Because everything you are doing while they are a child is done DURING THEIR FRICKING FORMATIVE YEARS!! Don't drug your kids people. It's pretty simple.