> he won't be aware of, let alone considerate of, other people's feelings Many autistics are very much considerate of other people's feelings - once they're ma

> he won't be aware of, let alone considerate of, other people's feelings Many autistics are very much considerate of other people's feelings - once they're made aware of them. Most that I know are in fact much more considerate than NTs. That said, it's still possible that they will come across hurtful or disrespectful even when they're making an effort to accomodate such feelings - simply because they will be more logical and less emotional in their speech and general demeanor. It helps if the communication and effort goes both ways - the autistic person trying to accommodate the feelings of others, and others trying to understand the (sometimes brutal) logic of the autistic.