Two incomes. One kid and one on the way. My wife and I can fully devote ourselves to our hobbies and interests without shame or judgement. Pretty similar to abo

Two incomes. One kid and one on the way. My wife and I can fully devote ourselves to our hobbies and interests without shame or judgement. Pretty similar to above, no? Never understood this shame and judgement. Can you explain a little more? I don't find kids/parenting exhausting at all. They actually give me power to do more, to do better for them, my wife and myself.