In a calm yet direct manner, can you tell him what he's doing that bothers you? Or what you'd prefer he do? (I'm quite aspie, and these are generally the ques

In a calm yet direct manner, can you tell him what he's doing that bothers you? Or what you'd prefer he do? (I'm quite aspie, and these are generally the questions I wish people would answer for me.) At the risk of "projecting" from my own life experience, you're possibly keeping it all bottled up inside, giving him zero opportunity to address your concerns, let alone be aware of them.