> My mother told me on my 12th birthday not to make the same mistake she did I don't want to read into your family situation at all, but this seems like an ext

> My mother told me on my 12th birthday not to make the same mistake she did I don't want to read into your family situation at all, but this seems like an extremely weird thing to say to your pre-teen. Could she not wait for you to be a bit older?