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> I think there is something to the idea that in the U.S., each subsequent generation is more infantilized, whether by less economic control leading to stunted
by psunavy03 3y ago
> I think there is something to the idea that in the U.S., each subsequent generation is more infantilized, whether by less economic control leading to stunted growth (delayed home ownership, marriage, etc.) or simply by an entire market trying to tickle their childhood nostalgia by creating consumer products and content that appeals to less-than-adult tastes.
"Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret, and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty, I read them openly. When I became a man, I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up."
- C.S. Lewis
- kelipso 3y agoWell of course a guy who enjoyed children's books in his 50s and probably got made fun of it for it constantly would say something like this.
- Apocryphon 3y agoDoubt the Inklings with their literary sales and reputations were ever in fear of that.
- psunavy03 3y agoGiven his stature in Western literature, I doubt he cared.
- sdwr 3y agoI remember feeling the same. As a child there's a sense that EVERYBODY knows better than you, open to reproach / correction from all angles. Part of being an adult is staking a claim to self-identity.