That's like saying you wouldn't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who plays video games. Or eats dessert. Or likes flashy cars. There's some l

That's like saying you wouldn't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who plays video games. Or eats dessert. Or likes flashy cars. There's some level that is perfectly healthy, as long as it doesn't interfere with the important stuff. --- If she says "diamond ring or else I don't want you"...that's bad. If she says "I prefer a diamond ring, but either way I want you"...nothing wrong with that.