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Love is irrational. If you avoid all irrational things, you are not human.
by 4gotunameagain 3y ago
Love is irrational. If you avoid all irrational things, you are not human.
- snvzz 3y agoHate is irrational, and yet it does not justify murder. Similarly, you can love w/o sabotaging the relationship by marrying, giving the other party a red button and a strong incentive to press it, effectively pushing the relationship out of balance. Statistically, they will. And statistically, you'll be screwed.
- surajrmal 3y agoIs the incentive financial? Isn't this assuming you earn more?
- snvzz 3y ago>Isn't this assuming No assuming. Refer to data on Divorce Court rulings on who gets screwed. Spoiler: It is men, as well as the children if any. Hard data shows what the odds are like for children who grow up in broken families.
- sasaf5 3y agoI would even say it's perfectly rational. Having someone who understands you and supports you, reliably by your side is a huge boost to your capacity to reason.
- snvzz 3y agoIt (Love) is. But Love is also not tied to marriage, as registered outcomes show.