> what's the phenomenon? how dumb and gullible the average person is? > am i supposed to feel bad? I see no reason for anyone to load up on the grief of other

> what's the phenomenon? how dumb and gullible the average person is? > am i supposed to feel bad? I see no reason for anyone to load up on the grief of others. We are all carrying enough of our own grief. But, it seems like you bear actual animosity towards people who are emotionally devastated. The least you could do is to maintain a neutral, non-judgemental point of view.