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> Speaking for myself I think through childhood I have just been too damn busy all the time with school and my own projects Me too, but I remember playing with
by csdvrx 3y ago
> Speaking for myself I think through childhood I have just been too damn busy all the time with school and my own projects
Me too, but I remember playing with my neighbor. The details are gone but I remember about some specific moments and experience too.
> And by not continually remembering myself the recent past, I eventually forgot about it when it became a distant past.
Why is it important to remember the past from such a long time ago?
I remember what happened last week more clearly than what happen last year.
I remember my final months in university a bit more clearly that the first year, which itself is clearer than my childhood.
Actually I had to count how long ago were my final months, it's been 6 years.
However, some key points and formula from the first year are still extremely clear in my head, because I've been using them frequently.
Forgetting about the distant path may be a feature, not a bug: it's like a garbage collector running in the background taking care of memories that haven't been retrieved in a long time, to make room for new ones that may be more useful. Old but useful memories aren't touched by the GC.
I'd say that's good: I care way more about the board game I played last week that some obscure details about childhood toys that have 0 utility in the present.
Nostalgia is just a preference for the well know, causing desire to revive the past masquerading as utility, making us wrongly discount present day innovations by lack of familiarity with them.
- eulgro 3y agoIt was a reflection I had after realizing how much others remember their childhood and I forgot most of it. It made me think on how I got there. But in the end I tend to draw the same conclusion as you do: I forgot because it had no value besides a nostalgic one. And I like you tend to rationalize nostalgy. I don't give much value to the past, except maybe an educational one.