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> No reason to question why they do it, No, then they'll never learn that it is received by "adults" as "unnecessarily extra-attention seeking". Most people w
by MuffinFlavored 3y ago
> No reason to question why they do it,
No, then they'll never learn that it is received by "adults" as "unnecessarily extra-attention seeking".
Most people who like to share stuff are seeking validation one way or another (myself included).
It might be worthwhile for OP to step back and ask "why am I seeking validation from strangers online to find what I post impressive"?
- thibaut_barrere 3y agoMaybe he didn't come here to receive a therapy :-) Maybe it's just cool to connect with people similarly minded and share what everyone is doing, not necessarily for attention seeking, but because it improves everyone's situation by sharing extra knowledge? Just sharing what I did at a younger age brought me extraordinary connections at the time, some who still are friends 30 years later.
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- alex_lav 3y agoIt’s not random people’s job on the internet to coach kids like this. I also disagree with you entirely on the way “adults” will perceive this behavior, so clearly there are no unanimous perspectives on how others will interpret things. Maybe this will be a good moment of reflection for you, an “adult”.