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Having grown up with a father that did the opposite of all of these points, I recognize that this is also good parenting advice.
by yterdy 3y ago
Having grown up with a father that did the opposite of all of these points, I recognize that this is also good parenting advice.
- freedomben 3y agoThis is a huge parenting tip that I hope more people see. My dad was pretty good about explaining and showing why he was making rules or decisions, but I also spent a lot of time with friends who had parents who did not, so I've seen both sides of this. When your kids are young, it matters much less and in some cases not at all. But especially as they get older, and can start to exercise reason, you should always, always explain why you are making a decision or a rule. Even if the why is "because I get too hot and I like the thermostat being low" being honest is not only going to get more compliance, but it will build trust, and your kids will learn from your example. It really is good general life success advice.