Agreed 100%. Our (informal) manual for consultants used to say something like "The cupcakes in the break room are not for you. Most people will not care if you

Agreed 100%. Our (informal) manual for consultants used to say something like "The cupcakes in the break room are not for you. Most people will not care if you take a cupcake, but somebody will, and we will hear about it. We give you money instead, and we will certainly bring you a cupcake if you want one."