#2 is exactly what is happening, IMO. There has been a pretty huge influx of employers that just really don't care what their employees act like on their own t

#2 is exactly what is happening, IMO. There has been a pretty huge influx of employers that just really don't care what their employees act like on their own time. Granted, a lot of this influx has been in the software development industry, but I really don't think that it's much of a leap to assume that it will also flow into other industries - especially considering that it is flowing through general acceptance by the average person in society. The optimistic part of me thinks that although it may have a bit of a rough transition, the next few generations after us will end up as being very open as far as accepting whatever behavior people indulge in with consenting parties.