certain personality types don’t just talk about themselves but rather lack awareness of others and don’t know how to read the room, as you suggest they should.

certain personality types don’t just talk about themselves but rather lack awareness of others and don’t know how to read the room, as you suggest they should. Really, these people are unlikely to change, much less realize they are bothering anyone or appear selfish. And indeed, trying to follow a set of rules laid out on the internet would just shine a light on it.