This is often quoted advice, but like many things it’s only true in moderation. People who take it too literally come across like therapists or interviewers. So

This is often quoted advice, but like many things it’s only true in moderation. People who take it too literally come across like therapists or interviewers. Some people are not comfortable talking about themselves, and most well adjusted people don’t want to talk endlessly about themselves. A good conversation should usually be an exchange.