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I am 20. All my high school friends have just stopped replying after leaving school. (even the ones promising to keep contact) In university, social life is no
by Pannoniae 3y ago
I am 20. All my high school friends have just stopped replying after leaving school. (even the ones promising to keep contact)
In university, social life is non-existent. Dating? It's in the category of "don't even think about that".
So yup, there's a reason why most of us are utterly lonely.
- circlefavshape 3y agoWhy wouldn't you even think about dating?
- nick222226 3y agoI lost most of my high school friends pretty quickly once gone to college but have managed to keep 2 good ones into my 30s, messaging or having a phone catch up with each anywhere from 1 to 5 times a year. In college the social life was pretty accessible through clubs, fraternities, study groups or dorm common rooms. My most steadfast friends have been from high school and from startups after college. They say "shared struggle breeds friendships" or something like that. Though in my generation ghosting was considered much more rude (or at least seemed less common), you at least had to try to politely deflect a message or phone call.