That's pretty much the conversation I've have with my wife every other week for the past 5+ years. I watch my local soccer team with a female friend (she's bot

That's pretty much the conversation I've have with my wife every other week for the past 5+ years. I watch my local soccer team with a female friend (she's both the ex-wife of an old school friend of mine, and an old college friend of my wife's). We all used to go together to watch them, but since my daughter's been born my wife tends to stay at home with her, so it's usually just me and Helen now. Admittedly we're not watching it on the sofa, we're at the ground. But we often meet up at her house before the game - she lives about 5 minutes from the ground - and my wife's got no actual way of knowing that we're not staying there for the entire game. At no point has she ever expressed the slightest concern that we're up to anything. We've been friends for over 20 years now (starting with her in a relationship, then both of us in relationships, now me in a relationship) and it's never been anything other than the sort of platonic friendship that I have with male friends.