Not really, but people are sexual. We created this social structure where sexual endeavors are done inside, privately, and in that context they do whatever they

Not really, but people are sexual. We created this social structure where sexual endeavors are done inside, privately, and in that context they do whatever they want, provided all participants are of age and willing. In public we are permitted to pursue and attract each other but no more. I think that's a perfectly reasonable state of affairs.