Not everyone has a community, nor will they be able to find one. The conventional wisdom is 'just be yourself' or 'fake it till you make it' but that's all BS a

Not everyone has a community, nor will they be able to find one. The conventional wisdom is 'just be yourself' or 'fake it till you make it' but that's all BS and self delusion. Sometimes, there really isn't anyone out there to connect with in a way that's going to be good for you. That's humanity for you.