And if by treated like everyone else, you mean we want to be treated like men that are expected to behave like men or face fear of being fired, or like women th

And if by treated like everyone else, you mean we want to be treated like men that are expected to behave like men or face fear of being fired, or like women that are expected to be nice about it when they get objectified, because that's how everyone else is treated, then no, we don't want an unethical system to accept us. We want everyone to be treated ethically, and fixing things for the nth, most fringe case, fixes things for the less fringe, n-1,n-2,n-3... cases.